Run oxfmt across repo, add format script and docs

Add .oxfmtignore to skip generated bindings and wasm-pack output.
Add npm format script, update DEVELOPMENT.md for Vite+ toolchain,
and format all non-generated files with oxfmt.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/common-lib/package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "@yaakapp-internal/lib",
-  "private": true,
   "version": "1.0.0",
+  "private": true,
   "main": "index.ts"
 }