Per Tailscale documentation, the wildcard (*) source includes "any
approved subnets" — the actually-advertised-and-approved routes from
nodes, not the autoApprover policy prefixes.
Change Asterix.resolve() to return just the base CGNAT+ULA set, and
add approved subnet routes as separate SrcIPs entries in the filter
compilation path. This preserves individual route prefixes that would
otherwise be merged by IPSet (e.g., 10.0.0.0/8 absorbing 10.33.0.0/16).
Also swap rule ordering in compileGrantWithAutogroupSelf() to emit
non-self destination rules before autogroup:self rules, matching the
Tailscale FilterRule wire format ordering.
Remove the unused AutoApproverPolicy.prefixes() method.
Updates #2180