Add OTEL tracing support for Wiremock + automatic OTEL for Aspire integration (#1418)

* Update aspire to 13.1 (examples + code)

Allows usage of aspire CLI which is very useful for dev in codespaces (for my next PR).

* Add OTEL support

* Initial PR feedback

* PR feedback

* PR feedback

* PR feedback

* Cleanup.

* Cleanup

* Fix

* Fix

* Rename stuff around to be more accurate

* PR feedback

* Update WireMock.Net.OpenTelemetry.csproj

Update <Authors>

* PR feedback parser

* PR feedback package versions

* Status code feedback.

* Update preprocessor directives to to Activity Tracing instead of OpenTelemetry. Is more descriptive.

* Add tests

* Improve tests

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Co-authored-by: Stef Heyenrath <Stef.Heyenrath@gmail.com>

src/WireMock.Net.Shared/Extensions/DictionaryExtensions.cs

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+// Copyright © WireMock.Net
+
+using System.Collections;
+using System.Diagnostics.CodeAnalysis;
+using Stef.Validation;
+
+namespace WireMock.Extensions;
+
+internal static class DictionaryExtensions
+{
+    public static bool TryGetStringValue(this IDictionary dictionary, string key, [NotNullWhen(true)] out string? value)
+    {
+        Guard.NotNull(dictionary);
+        
+        if (dictionary[key] is string valueIsString)
+        {
+            value = valueIsString;
+            return true;
+        }
+
+        var valueToString = dictionary[key]?.ToString();
+        if (valueToString != null)
+        {
+            value = valueToString;
+            return true;
+        }
+
+        value = default;
+        return false;
+    }
+}